Cathy's Poem

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 I went to the doctor that day,

not knowing what he would say.

Had an MRI scan and had to wait forever and a day.

The results were not what I expected,

he said I had mild vascular dementia.

My life changed from that day on,

not knowing what was to become.

I now try to live my life as each day is my last one.

And hope and pray to still have fun.

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